So I slept with this older lady I her 30s last month and at first it was just as hook up, but now it she wants to start dating. She's cool and attractive but the thing is she's been married before and she also told me she's got a fiance who lives or works abroad. I don't want to continue seeing her because I don't want to be used or fall for her knowing she'll leave me. What shall I do? She's really attractive.