It's not for u eko milakewu, it's for ur parents so even if he has ur approval he still has to get from ur parents too

It's disrespect

What ever reason he have, it's unacceptable cuz it not about him investing money on nonsense this is the way he shows his respect to your family and ask for your hand and if he says no am sorry to say this but he really don't respect you or your family

Tell us his reason, lets hear it👍