Because they are a pain in the ASS. There is a reason why some people say"ሞቶው ያለቁበት አግቢ " as advice. 1)We are poor people therefore mostly the man supports his family when his stable, his family will attack his wife because they think they will lose his handouts. 2)Some of them raised them without a father as a single mom and expect their son to be a somesort of husband figures. They act as their kid is their husband anf as if the women stole their kid.