Hey guys, please seriously advise me on this... i'm 18 yrs old & grade student right now, abt year ago, i started watching self-development videos and trying to change myself, but until now i haven’t been able to succeed, so please tell me, how can I build a strong personality and develop a mature and strong mindset?
Apr 03, 2026You could watch self improvement videos for 10 years and still not change. The magic is not self improvement, but self destruction. In order to become a new person, you will have to destroy your current self. And no amount of self improvement video will make a change. I’m saying this because i was like you and also I’m older than you so i can give u some real materials to actually help u change. If you’re interested of course:)
Apr 03, 2026(edited)Wdym?
Apr 03, 2026You need supportive dude or relatives around you! If you want, we will be supportive each other feel free
Apr 03, 2026(edited)Ok
Apr 03, 2026Hey, ahun lay sle self-dev miseru book or YT vid they are more likely make u feel hyped rather that teaching you the core concepts of change. And the other thing is our brain don't know the d/c b/n the reality and the things we think in our mind, but ahun yebezaw hype new enji really endet new yemilewn tyake mimelsu sewochm hone programoch bzum yelum. So my advise to you is, try to get it from eza neger lay muyaw kehone sew. Ena for me if u know Jordan Peterson i advise u to see his YT lectures.
Apr 05, 2026Unfortunately to build a personality you have to be exposed for uncomfortable situations so go out and fail 🤗
Apr 03, 2026Man stop listening to these people who be like "read this book, read that book", just give yourself some space, know who you are and what u wanna be, develop that specific skill and just keep on practicing and link up with people doing the same thing as u. Js hv a clear goal. Self development videos are not there to help you, they don't give u purpose.
Apr 03, 2026Don't ever watch motivational videos again, they dont change you, infact they give you false hope and make change look easier than it looks, i'm not saying it's that hard, it's not hard but it has got ways. Learn those ways and apply them, try to study how you became to be you, you strengths and weekness, what to improve and what to change. Learn it based on facts, biology, psychology and philosophy. Learn what neuroplasticty is, how behaviors develop, and how they change
Apr 03, 2026Stop consuming internet bullshit and ignore unnecessary things
Apr 03, 2026“the great aim of education, is not knowledge but action.” Herbert Spencer....don't be scared to fail ...go out and try
Apr 03, 2026No these are all bs. I don't think anyone has ever literally changed their mindset by just watching or reading these typa content. Listen to what the guy on the top said about rebuilding yourself and all of that, second, if you want to change your mindset and yourself in general, this might sound like an unpopular opinion, but start reading actual books. It could be fictional, it could be non fiction, the amount of new words you learn, fictional characters you learn from and everything helps.
Apr 03, 2026Self help books and videos are waste of time. Just read classic novels and books where different characters go through different things and develop accordingly— you’ll be able to see different people/characters point of view, understand their emotions, understand and try to justify their actions, and so on. I’ve read over 10 self help books and watches a lot of videos bust I learned a lot from old classical books than those self help books and video
Apr 03, 2026
Dude wanted to change himself by simply watching self development vids😂Everything is bullshit Franklin
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