I met this guy at work our coworkers started shipping us together he was mad at first but decided to play along. I developed a crush on him we started chating initially it was professional tham here and there banter and inside jokes. It was very obvious to everyone around i was into him, he also went out of his way to help me at work. than i had to leave the work and relocate during that time he never not once reached out but whenever i initiate a convo he is very warm and detailed and vulerable saying he missed me and sharing the longest detailed stories from his work and staff. we are in the same city he never made plans to meet up. He ghosted me for months but showed me mixed signals he than reached out twice once to ask info once to congratulate me than went ghost again Today we met beagatami and he looked nervous when he hugged me my question is should i trust my gut let go or is he just shy and deserves more chance mind you we are not teenagers we grown