Several reasons 1. Women evolved and grew up to be not so out spoken and daring. Specially when it comes to relationship and sexual activities. 2. Women who are pretty upfront about their desires are usually labeled a "slut" or sreat alba. Weg yematawk. A lotta shame with being defar 3. Relationship has lots of risks associated with it. It's not that many women are making it complicated, for women it IS complicated.