“I’ve developed feelings for a female colleague who has been very supportive and kind. We mostly talk when I need help, but she’s comfortable and happy spending time with me one-on-one. I also feel insecure about my height, and sometimes I get jealous when I see her with others, even though I don’t think anything is happening. I don’t want to confess my feelings too soon because I value our relationship and don’t want to lose it. I want to ask: For women How important is a man’s height when getting close to someone? Or Equal But Not Taller @&What subtle signs would show if she might have feelings for me? For men Have you ever been in a similar situation? How did you handle it, and what worked best to maintain the relationship while figuring out your feelings?”
Mar 10, 2026First Dont be insecure about your height, not only for her but for all of your life. Even if she rejects you for your height dont take it personal, am short too, but my Gf is taller than me. Know that, your height matters, but your insecurity about it makes it worse. So try to attract her through your action make her attached to you, show her your romantic desire slowly.. if she says no, dont approach her agaim.
Mar 10, 2026