I’m currently in a relationship, but I’ve realized over time that I don’t see long-term alignment or peace in it, especially regarding the kind of marriage and family life I want. There hasn’t been a major betrayal it’s more about emotional compatibility, communication style, and feeling that our values and expectations for the future don’t match. At the same time, I’ve recently developed a respectful friendship with someone else who reflects the kind of calm, supportive dynamic I’ve always wanted, and this contrast has made my doubts about my current relationship clearer. I have not started a new relationship and I don’t want to jump from one to another; I want to end things properly and take time to reset. I am confused but I am thinking to break up over a phone or video call.