I don't know in detail the for me self-acceptance is trusting his decision if he decides to make you look like this to make you act like this if this is what he gave you in life then it means that he believes he believes this is what is right what it's meant to be then I believe his decision and accept everything and that is self-acceptance to me, so for me myself acceptance comes from him giving me this life this physical this everything they look like so I accept his decision to give me that and I think that's the best decision.