You said you dont wanna make the conversation awkard, but if you depend on conversation from the abouve question you asked that will be the most awkard experience.  Cause it will be Unnatural,... Just ask something you want to know about her, and dont make it that much personal,  ሸምድደክ tiyake ayteyekim, just let the conversation flow naturally. One girl different from another, what another girl will love to answer maybe hated by the other, so you cant depend on other girls experience for your girl, that is wierd.