Ladies, why say "I'll text you" then vanish for 3 days while being nice in person? I met a girl on campus. We walked & talked 3 times; she seemed genuinely interested. When I asked to meet properly, she gave her Telegram (refused her phone number)—I know that's a soft NO but I still tried. I texted asking to meet. She replied a day later saying she was busy. I asked about the next day. She said "I'll see, I'll text you." That was Thursday. It's Sunday night. Complete silence. The confusing part: We still greet politely on campus. Today, I passed her walking while she was glued to her phone. I had sent a "Hi" hours before—she ignored it but was actively using her phone as we passed paths. Why the lie? Why not just say "No"? If it is a test, what on earth are you testing?