I'm attractive, physically fit, deeply committed to my Protestant faith, with a steady job, solid income, and plenty of promising opportunities on the horizon. Yet, throughout my life, I've never had a girlfriend or even been physically close to anyone—I just want to share this life's journey with someone, opening up about my successes and challenges in every aspect, but sadly, I'm always alone because of my shyness and high standards for a partner. If you've been in a similar spot, how did you handle it? I've grown used to this solitary routine and hesitate to make the first move, but so do the women around me; deep inside, I know the caliber of woman I deserve, though they're incredibly hard to find. Please, some advice would mean a lot.