So guys, my last and only relationship was like 5–6 years ago, and…

Mood_stablizer

13

Girl, it's okay... I have never dated or been in a relationship either. I am most probably older than you, and I read your story like mine. So just live your life; if you meet a nice guy along the way, give him a chance. If not, continue to have fun, focus on your work, sleep, take care of yourself, and hang out with your friends.

Nov 10, 2025

Jjab

59.5

Yezemenu sewoch chgrachin min meselesh.. yhe film lay or social media lay yalen neger yemr argo mekebel.. and then raising expectation based off of that, reality is completely different, we expect someone to appear on our life and feel the attraction instantly, so when someone approaches us and fails to make us feel the spark instantly we are tempted to cut it short cuz we feel like we are just gonna waste our time with this person... but what i am beginning to understand is that it takes time for something as big as true love to develop. Just because we don't like someone from the initial impression doesn't necessarily mean that that person is completely not the right partner for us. You can't know what kinda person someone is just by reading his opening texts or by looking at his actions at the first date. His actions might be coming from some misleading youtube video he saw on how to attract a woman, or he might be trying to apply the latest theory he read and misunderstood on Instagram... my point is, I personaly think you should be open to lower your expectations a notch and to let guys show you there real identity before deciding that they are not intellectually unattractive just because they screw up the first time

Nov 10, 2025

Melashud

-187

So stay single forever then it’s that simple

Nov 10, 2025

Miss_unbothered

3689OP

setochn nw yeteyekut gn thank you for ur answer

Nov 10, 2025

ZealLion15

20

Wude snt smetsh new, Magbat tfelgialesha, give them a chance, yehonen sew Kenichi stawkiw na stkerbiw yileyayal trust me. Yemtteyiwn bahri mewded tjemriayelsh, At the end of the day yesew lj yilewawetal, use ur age wisely. Fantasy sttebki edme endayalfsh, Date 2 or 3 guys at the same time, choose logically who will be best dad for ur children and settle Ull love him through time This is my opinion

Nov 09, 2025

Universe

176.5

at least tru setoch endalu masaya nesh🙏 , miss unbothered the famous commentator here in Ask any thing ……just dont get bothered this is not what you can plan and achieve, its God's Plan. Hopefully you will meet ur soul Good luck

Nov 10, 2025

Kedamawe

61

You’re not alone in that, a lot of people feel torn between craving connection and protecting their peace. It’s not a flaw, it’s awareness. Sometimes the real work isn’t “finding someone” it’s realigning what kind of love you’re ready to receive. Dm me @kedama_we

Nov 11, 2025

Art

118

First atgebsh yalutn eyi... gen endalshw mentally unattractive kehonu mnm madreg aychalem new guys metewawek yenorbshal. Yaw further sayked emotionally attached satehogni bedenb mayet meleyet yasfelgshal. DM for more.

Nov 09, 2025

Attitude

11

Yene enat same here ... beside being in rship before like u malet new it's okey bby just pray .. as long as u do that have a belief someone u match with u ... one day it would happen just a little patience and trust

Nov 09, 2025

Notorious_PaPa

259.5

So you are bothered 😕

Nov 10, 2025

philosopher

211.5

You don't need marriage, my sister! Don't take it in wrong way! I, as a male...I don't want to marry...I don't like having kids and shitty life like the rest of the world....yoj can live the life yku want without a relationship, kids and bla bla...boring and tougher life! If you don't agree just m, replay me don't touch the ❎ button🙌.

Nov 09, 2025

Miss_unbothered

3689OP

Honestly, I do want to get married ....not right now, but maybe toward the end of my twenties. It’s just… love feels so fake these days. Cheating is basically normal now, and I don’t want to settle for that. I’m genuinely content on my own, but sometimes I feel a little out of place because I’m not flirting, dating, or even entertaining anyone and it’s been that way for years. I just wonder if there are other women like me out there and how they deal with this phase. Because deep down, I still dream about a real, loyal love and a happy marriage… and yeah, I want a big family... like eight kids kind of big 😅

Nov 10, 2025

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