1st ask her why. She might have experienced traumas in her past & that may be her fear and reason for hate. Maybe she shared it with you because she cared for you, so that you could prove her all men are not the same. Next thing, be a Man, real man... show her how gentile we can be. Give her good care, guidance, protection, & life rules for better existence…. as long as you give her that, if she doesn't respond to that positively... you can ditch her after that. But love needs sacrifice, be ready for that. Peace out🤞🏼🤞🏼