So i have a question this is for both men and women specially if ur dating a foreigners and ur about to meet them and get engaged soon am a girl so what advice do u give me? How do I know if he really loves me or wanna use me this will be his first time coming here. So anyadvice will help. Pretty much he support me specially in my dreams and goals he invest so much on my education and health . But when he comes we gonna get engaged his gonna meet my parents and I already meet his mom and brother .