This is a very critical question for men, especially single men. I have two questions: 1⃣). What is the fundamental thing you value in a relationship? And what is something you would never tolerate, even if it pertains to her past? 2⃣). Which scenario would you tolerate (or not) in your relationship? A. She does not respect you (not often), but she is loyal and you are her first choice and she loves you. B. She is not loyal (without you knowing), but she shows you respect and loves you. C. You are her backup option, but she is loyal and has a clean past. D. Her body count is more than 10, but now she is loyal to you, respects you, and loves you more than anyone else. Personally those are the core value i see in relationships so I do not tolerate any of these scenarios. 😐
Oct 23, 2025Look if its a relationship, then that means the goal is seeing how much further I can go with that person right? One thing i hate in a relationship is a past history that hasnt been dealt with. I dont care if she had a boyfriend but I dont like a girl who gets in a relationship with me as a rebound. Because the heart is already somewhere else. And above all I dont want a relationship with a girl that doesn't love God and dont believe in Jesus because thats one of my love language, I mean if anything comes thats our common ground, a ground where we fix and work on things. 2. D One thing the word of God taught me is that sins and past history is not our definition. Of course there can be some difficulties but if i get in a relationship knowing that history that means I'm accepting that past but the rest are more of a current issue problems so I'll pass.
Oct 23, 2025