Hello, I’m 25 years old man Why do none of my friendships ever seem to last? It’s like no matter how much love, effort, and loyalty I give, people always end up fading away. I go out of my way to make my friends happy, I check on them, plan things, listen to them when they need me but when it comes to me, it feels like I’m invisible. If I stop reaching out, everything just stops. No one checks in. No one asks how I’m doing. No one plan things to do with me. The connection only exists if I’m the one holding it together. not angry just tired. I want to keep these friendships, but it hurts when the same energy aren’t returned. Makes me wonder if I’m too much, or not enough. Has anyone else ever felt like this?