It's not that important. You don't have to be very good looking to be attractive. That's just false perception from social media. Looks have always been important for women and even more today. That's never the case for guys tho. It doesn't mean looks don't matter at all. More like the bar is very low for guys. All the things that u mentioned as የድሮ are still practical. As for you, you are not perceived as less attractive at all. Being tall, athletic and dark skinned are all attractive features that most women prefer. Don't stress yourself.