We have been for 4years i love him so much, and he loves me too, but right now he’s hurting me deeply. He’s become rude and controlling, taking away my freedom and confidence. At first, I told him I don’t want a boyfriend who drinks alcohol, but now he’s drinking, even though I asked him not to. I’ve tried breaking up with him several times, but every time I do, he acts like he’s very sick or talks about suicide, and I go back because I don’t want him to die. But staying with him isn’t making me happy—I feel trapped, like I have no choice. I’m exhausted, scared, and heartbroken. I just want someone to understand what it feels like to love someone who’s hurting you while feeling powerless to protect yourself. Please help me 😭
Sep 21, 2025Girl why are you responsible for a grown ass man life?? Tell him that you are not feeling him anymore gently respectfully and if he tried acting sick and all tell to go fuck himself of course respectfully and he won't kill himself. Don't waste your time energy love on someone who doesn't deserve you
Sep 21, 2025