What do you do when you find the right person at the wrong time? 😔 I don't even have the courage to ask her out. I am an independent person. I can support myself but this is not the life I want for her. You know that excruciatingly painful feeling when you imagine the future with someone and you feel embarrassed that the thought crossed your mind. Then you consider yourself selfish for wishing. I don't know if you feel me, but it is painful.