Chasing women, being able to provide for her, protect her also lead her is a masculine man thing feminine guys won't understand it and the idea of it irritates them because they wanna be a princess themselves sadly and also with all due respect esti go to gym just incase if it increases your testosterone level and make you feel like a man😁... I don't know why ya'll hate women but I hope your heart heals and be able to give and receive love✌️