For all the ones sayin u shouldnt care about what the father says, they are not being realistic. Marriage is not just something that unites just the two of u, both ur families also unite through this bond that u form. Siktl dgmo they will be ur in-laws right? Startin a marriage with hatred before even gettin to know them makes it even harder and wont be good for ur future kids. Sijmr ye beteseb dua ena berakah yelelbet tedar bela'e eko new chgr bcha sifetatenachu new mikermew. Am sayin give em time ena try to convince em, specially his mom should try to do so since she is his mother, and well has a good perception of u. This things are not to be rushed and he should talk to them respectfully and in a well mannered way. Cus if he becomes emotional and starts ragin n stuff it will show em that he aint ready and will even make their excuses valid. Be rational and symphathetic towards them and try to show ur point like a grown ups would do and they will open up inshaAllah if Allah wills it. Be steadfast in ur dua and have patience, no parent just accepts a marriage proposal right there and then, they all take their time to go thru the decision and i believe that is wht his parents r doing. Good luck engdi gurl.