YALL I’m starting to like someone. He is so nice😭and things are starting to get real But guess what, He lives ABROAD. And im here. Bro’s never even been here before but he’s habesha n stuff so we got stuff to relate to idk though but lately even if im denying im starting to get interested in him n stuff Video calls and long hour talks and all 21 btw,both of us So it sounds soo unrealistic for this to turn into something real. I feel like im plotting to be disappointed and hurt and waste my years, But my gut is telling me that if I entertain this it will turn into something beautiful. Like he’s such a sweet guy God oh God. But im scared of getting hurt HELP A GIRL OUT😭
Aug 10, 2025Entertain this, honey. Let it become something beautiful. If it does, n if u both start to feel it, after sometime, you'll figure out a way to meet up. Maybe you'll go visit him, or maybe he'll come visit you, or you'll find a 2 month training program around his city. N you'll see if you still feel that shit or not. N if it's doesn't work, embrace the failure, knowing fully that you took a shot on something beautiful. My point is, you're just 21 - if you're scared of getting hurt and feeling pain, it will be difficult for you to create something worthwhile and substantial.
Aug 10, 2025