Look at closely about how he talks about you, and about other women. If he views women as "females" but not ad "humans" and thats all you need. His views on Women, his relationship with other women, could tell you a lot about what kinda personality he has. Communication is big so if he's a real deal, he tells you clearly what he wants and Asks about what you want. If he's sounding like he's compromising just to be with you again there you go leave. I've seen wome get nagged day in day out by men. You don't need all that. Watch how he moves. Love bombing has always been their favorite move. Hope you're a mentally healthy person and don't fall for that drama. If you have to, Look for those who are calm, and move slow with Honesty and clarity. Try to stay away from desperate hoes. Being chased could sound fun but that manwhore is just after any hole he get get his hands on. Go for a man that has preference, knows how to say no and be respectful doing it. Men who have a lot of other things going on for him and Isn't thirsting over people.