Guys I got married recently and it seems some friends/ppl behaviour has completely changed. 1. They are trying to give me space since I’m newly married? 2. They think things will change now that I’m married so they are choosing to distance themselves? 3. They are jealous and don’t want to be in my life anymore? Have you ever experienced something like this? What do u think? 🤔
Jul 30, 20251. Yeah ig. Is that bad? You are married aren't you? 2. But it's true isn't it? You're not single anymore. Specially if you're a woman, you're life completely changes after you're married and your friends know that. It's cool if you still have freedom and isn't a full-time maid by now but That's the outcome they expect when their friend gets married. You're not a free woman now, you're a Wife. There's a big difference. Can't blame them for recognizing that. 3. That rarely happens Amiga. Make sure you're not jealous of them tho:) Reach out to them. Ask them what's up, Tell them that your husband is a good guy and he allows you to see the sun once in a while. Or maybe you're friends just Straight up don't like your husband. But they don't wanna sit there show you that si they stay away.
Jul 30, 2025Dear its all about ur self-concept about marriage 1. Newly married sithogni people give space usually btw enem bageba sew silayhut nw already sew yetgaba semon married couple yaw bechachewn sefi gize endyasalfu ena people doesn’t want to bother leza nw maybe anchi social life betam yelmdesh kehonsh maybe anchi sew endikbesh filagotsh lihon yichilal gin with this reason nw sew rak yemilew 2. The 2nd idk people have their own reasons for that in order to know degmo u have to be open up and talk to them 3. If u are sure they are jealous cut them off jealousy is evil btw I hope this helps
Jul 30, 2025It really does thanks😊 maybe I’m just extra noticing peoples actions to see who changes or who’s still the same😂 but they are still the same maybe idk. Plus I kinda have a lot of free time at the moment lol
Jul 30, 2025Ofc that's a 100% fact, and that's completely okay buddy, just make sure you're living your life properly, and everything will get back to normal and even better when you get even closer with your partner
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Jul 30, 2025Thanks guys for your replies. Only thing is I’m surprised to see the wide variety of views on marriage. For the ppl that are against it pls ask yourself why. It usually stems from hurt. Good marriages still exist and you shouldn’t operate on negative experiences or let them shape your thinking for anything you do in life. 🫶
Jul 30, 2025Once you get married we the single guys think all your time belongs to your partner.that's why we distance our self.if you want to change their mind tell them that just because I am married it doesn't mean I stopped living my social life..then may be they might reconsider their decision.
Jul 30, 2025Honestly you seem to be not happy by your marriage life if you were happy you won't even notice other people's existence. They were trying to give u space to enjoy your new life but you are in search of them because there is nothing to enjoy in your new life so you are sad now your brain is tricking you out of sadness by saying they are Jelous of you as if marrying is a very big deal all your surroundings want but you get. Don't lie your self honey confront the truth 1, not every one will be Jelous so this thing is in your mind 2, as I know every new married couples need free space they don't even get enough of the free time, so ask your self why not me???
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