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So here is the thing y'all. I am always obsessed with guys. I easily for attached and get hurt. But that is not the biggest problem the biggest problem is idk how to be just a friend with a guy. I always develop some unfreindly feelings. And I really wanna stop that. And currently I'm talking to this guy who thought is my friend but I start having some feelings for him too. And we're a no go. Please tell me what I should do. Pleaseee help your girl out. Im so stressed.

Oct 13, 2020

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VoNo

I am not a certified psychologist but I think u are afraid to be alone for a while. U are getting easily attached to the best thing close to u to relief the anxiety or fear of being lonely. Or u have some abandonment issues, which happens to most of us. So u don't want to go through that pain again. So what can be done...u need to spend more time with yourself and realize why u want to be with people all the time. Do somethings u enjoy by urself and realize u don't need someone to fill ur void, u can be whole by urself. Ik cliche but it's how u "love yourself". Plus if ur friends are all in a relationship and not u...take ur time no need to rush. They probably got issues on their own cuz most of it is rushed so chill by urself, understand urself

Oct 14, 2020

ZestyBison40

102

I was like that too. But it's the worst thing to go with what you are feeling cuz you can't truly like all of them the same and this will lead you into being unable to be really intimate with the guy who is special to you. Additionally try to get to know guys and enjoy them passed those feelings for who they are building a real closeness to them and making it a habit building your knowledge of personality catalogue. Also don't forget the women as well. Get to know people and allow your self to get passed the uncomfortable awkwardness that may come from not knowing a person thoroughly and using romantic feelings as pacifiers or icebreakers. Learn to feel uncomfortable with people and don't give in to romanticising relationships just to make them comfortable. That's costy. And relationships should come from both ways and you have to make the boys learn to respect you enough to make you comfortable with them without wanting anything in return

Oct 14, 2020

LemonPelican10

438

That is not love that is your hormone . Congratulations you are a teenager 😁

Oct 14, 2020

Brainiac

8784.5

Well try to understand the boundaries of the friendship,

Oct 14, 2020

Anonymous

Friendship is better than relationship, trust me ✌️🏾

Oct 14, 2020

Onlmys

200

I thought it only happened to me I never thought enkuan Lela people chrash a girl that's rare But I couldn't still find a solution yet I'm still getting hurt So I just decided to stop talking

Oct 14, 2020

PluckyEagle89

Grow up, friends of opposite sex always end up fucking It could work if there is no attraction between the two but highly. If both or one of them are attracted to each other And just to let you know I can not stay friends with a girl either

Oct 14, 2020

White_Noise

411.5

Find someone with mutual feelings. That way you don't get hurt.

Oct 14, 2020

OliveCrane78

1711

Get yourself a reality check!!!

Oct 14, 2020

Machiavelli

I can't help you here cuz am the guy version of you...😔buh My way to deal with it is, I make my self distant for a while hoping it works...

Oct 14, 2020

ZealFerret49

Happens here too. You can't beat it because it's just who you are.

Oct 14, 2020

TopazDingo19

1596.5

Just go with the flow😁 don't stressed out

Oct 14, 2020

NtnNew

Just tell him how you feel and see how things will go I can help you if you want

Oct 14, 2020

Base

678

Don't stress these much it happened all time becha if u r not sure about he has some feeling too try to make ur self more distance from the guy

Oct 17, 2020

I think u r emotionally broken nd u r fallin for someone who's not emotionally available

Oct 15, 2020

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