Esua nech wesagnua. I'm not gonna sit here and pretend like am the one who'll carry the baby for close to a year, get sick, get tired, get drained, keza bleed and give birth, endure one of the most painful things anyone can go through at a risk of dying. and let's not even get started on the shit she goes through just after giving birth. All that, happens to her. So, it'll all be what she wants, when she wants and how she wants.