1. Emotional intelligence ( empathy, patience, understanding others, calm Aura, Sense of responsibility snd accountability) 2. Arko maseb: shallow ena bilichlich sayhon keza jerba rak blo yalewu neger sitayewu 3. The control themselves not the other way around. Sus, Smet, ye begu menga ena yemesaselut control ayareguachewm.