The one who does, not say. I'll be the people I want them to become. Children don't listen, they watch. For my girls I'll set an example of how a man should treat a woman by the ways i treat her, her mother and any other women. I'll be her cheerleader and gentle guide, not a negative energy that's filled with rage. I'll raise her standards so she doesn't settle for the simplest human decency that some men offer like it's pure vIp service. For my son's I'll be the role model they need so that one day they won't listen to the twats on the internet and podcast. My boys will know their power and their responsibility. I'll be their friend and dad not their nightmare and father by blood. They'll be humble and someone a weaker person can rely on even when the lights go out.