To the ladies who chose the second option: The chances of getting a man like that are slim and depend on what you bring to the table. 1. Are you as successful and wealthy as him? If not, you likely won't be in his circle. Rich men are surrounded by rich people. Be independent—if you're poor, poor men will be around you. 2. Are you attractive enough? If not, he probably won’t notice you. 3. Most successful men didn’t marry at the peak. They married someone who supported them early on, grew with them, and gave them a reason to fight.