Would it be a turn-off if a girl made the first move. like texting you first? And what if she's 11 years younger? My friend likes a guy she works with. He's generally kind to everyone, but she feels like he's extra kind to her. That said, he hasn’t made any flirty moves, so it’s hard to tell if he’s interested. She’s thinking of making the first move but is nervous especially because they work at the same place and she’s not sure how he’d take it.
May 13, 202511 years appears too much, but uk relatively for guys they don’t care about it that much as long as she aint that young (Below 20 for eg). anyways, my gf made the first move and we are together for 4 years, i wasn’t making first moves out of fear (due to many conditions). Probably the guy might be thinking the same as me :)
May 13, 2025