I really need honest opinions, from both women and men. I’m getting married soon and I’m a virgin. My fiancé is really in love with me and my body ❤️ He always tells me I’m beautiful and perfect, and he is VERY excited and looking forward to our wedding night. But he hasn’t seen me naked yet. My problem is that my inner lips are a little longer, and honestly I don’t like how they look. I’m very insecure about it and I’ve even been thinking about labiaplasty. I saw a doctor on TikTok saying it’s around 65k. Now I’m scared 😭 What if he sees me for the first time and thinks differently? Even though he loves me so much, I keep worrying about it. Women: Did you ever feel this way before your first time? Did your husbandcare about how you looked? Men: Honestly, does the shape or size of a woman’s inner lips matter to you? Would you care if they were longer? Should I just leave it and stop overthinking? Or would you consider surgery before the wedding? እባክዎ እውነተኛ ሀሳባችሁን ንገሩኝ
Oct 05, 2026Im a F and im really sorry its bothering u and u think like that but its common and normal than u imagine, if he really loves u as u say theres nth to worry abt cause its nature and he'll accept it. Body dysmorphia is real and i hope u make peace with it. Communicate with him and it'll be fine dw 💕
Oct 05, 2026(edited)