Well I'm a guy let me tell you my experience when I was approached by a women,this one time I was returning home from campus in the middle of the road she just came straight to me and asked for my number I didn't say anything I just walk through ( btw it was Infront of her friends) I did that because I had a gf ena what I'm trying to say is if the guy you like doesn't have a gf it's really simple we not puzzles like you girls just talk to him