, I’ve been talking to this girl for about a month, and we’ve gotten really close. We talk almost every day, sometimes all night, and we’ve talked about loving each other and having a future together. One day, I couldn’t reach her because her phone was dead. Later that night, she explained it had fallen into water, and we had a normal long conversation. Later, I told her I’d call that night, but she said she couldn’t because she was with her brother. I said I’d call the next morning, but she said, “I don’t think so.” When I asked why, she told me to guess. I jokingly guessed, “Maybe you met another guy?” She then asked, “What makes you think that?” The conversation became serious, and she suddenly said she was going to marry someone else because her family had chosen someone for her and she respected their decision. But afterward, she still acted caring, checked on me, and even said she wanted to hear my voice to make sure I was okay. So what do you think is actually going
Oct 02, 2026She didn’t “respect” her parent’s decision. She made a conscious deliberate decision by choosing the safe option. He’s most likely a rich and respectable prospect, which weighed more for her decision. What’s wrong with this is she’s still keeping you on the hook because she doesn’t want to lose the lovey dovey feeling of talking with a guy and exploring a relationship. So just stop all communications with her and tell her to understand she can’t have the best of both worlds. Hope this helps.
Oct 02, 2026