I would appreciate your advice specially from guys perspective; I am a female, I am married with a baby. I have an income which is much more than my husbands incomes. And he don't like that, he said he hates that he is not the provider and the MAN to our house. Please help me how I can make him feel more secure. And that I love him and i just want him to be happy and thankful with what we have and for him to stop getting drunk because of this for the sake of our future life. I am scared of losing him.