Im 23m, and i need advice (possibly from guys who are older than me that have gone through this) How do I get my mind off lust and lust-ful thoughts? Like my head nowadays is just women and sex and sexual fantasies mnamn… Ena demo the availability is what makes it worse, I see a thirst trap everytime I open TikTok and I struggle with temptation for like an hour after… Movies, even books, everywhere. Even flirtatious attempts from the girls at the office would send me into so much temptation that it’s becoming hard even to focus at this point. I pray, I workout, I’m busy almost all day, even esegdalew betam… I have told my neseha abat this gn the recommendation is to either pray (which I do) or to get married as soon as possible (Which I can’t right now)… Gn beka is that it? Like how do I make my mind stay out of lustful thoughts and make my day a productive? How have you guys done this (if any of you passed through something like this) Thanks.
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