Mid-20s F here 😂 Feminists and man-haters, please chill. These are just preferences, nobody’s being a pick-me. Where did the humble, attractive, tall, provider-type men go? 😭 I want a man who’s gentle but masculine, caring, independent, knows how to treat his woman, and is happy to provide. I still want to be feminine, a wife and mother, while building a modern, loving relationship where we share life, respect each other, and choose the roles that work for us. Why can’t we keep the good parts of tradition?