Is it wrong to think my money is my money and my husband’s money is…

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Is it wrong to think my money is my money and my husband’s money is our money? Like I’m the one that’s being financially disadvantaged in a marriage after giving birth, and the financial risk always relies on me as a woman, so why would I not have a safety net and use my money only for myself and save it up for my future (in case something happens)? Like am I missing something? Does this mean I don’t trust my husband? Or I’m not 100% invested in our marriage? Please answer this rationally not emotionally because we plan to get married in 2 months.

Sep 11, 2026

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AMORA

YAS ITS WRONG . If a girl say this to me i wd immediately think that she wouldn't help me if i need some finanncial help because "her money is HER money" so am not on it. Also dont be entitled to his labour , time he spend to get the money and the stress he has been through just so you think and act like this. FOR A HAPPY AND LONG LASTING MARRIAGE YOU AS A WIFE SHOULD ALWAYS THINK AND SAY YOU ARE THERE FOR HIM IN EVERY DIFFICULT SITUATIONS INCLUDING MONEY ISSUES DONT MAKE US FEEL USED

Sep 12, 2026

Him0123

4820.5

Ur not 100% invested in the marriage n also don't trust ur husband what's urs is his n what's his is urs that how marriage is it's team work nobody is a star player in marriage even if u guys divorced ayargew ena u still have financial advantages eko u will get half of the wealth that is made during n after marriage eko if u fear that u will be at a disadvantage talk wiz him n communicate n don't base ur marriage on the opinion of women on social media or even ur single friends it will ruin it

Sep 11, 2026

ShadowRaven77

What is the meaning of marriage, it isn’t a contract full of rules and regulations. It’s literally becoming One, if we’re talking about the true marriage. Yanchi lene yene lanchi new gabicha malet. You guys are literally bonding to bring a human into the world for crying out loud. Ofcourse you wanna make sure he will meet your needs. Trust god with your finances.

Sep 12, 2026

Green

1436.5

Yea it's a trust issue, what made you feel like this? What did you notice on your husband? There must something that made you wonder. Trust your gut.

Sep 12, 2026

Anonymous

Kematamigniw sew ga alemegabat newa. Chirash marriage wst hono sle divorce eyetasebe new nuro maytamen sew kehone mejemeriyam bihon alemagbat new

Sep 12, 2026

NA_OL

1028

You are not wrong but your deduction of what you are doing is definitely wrong and it can be problematic! Lemme explain. You want a safety net, and a back up.... and you perceived this as having your own money and him having his own! That's not the implication. Having a back up for yourself and the family and not trusting your husband makes complete sense and your husband s give you even more reassurance. But seeing the money as smth you put back for the family is better than making territories

Sep 11, 2026(edited)

Daav

969.5

if u trust ur husband if stg happens bilesh birr atasheshim nbr siketl birr eyalesh esu lay dependent mehon selfishnet nw yihe fkr aydelem

Sep 11, 2026

Melashud

-187

Immature shermuta🤮don’t get married with this mindset abatsh meselesh ende gm

Sep 12, 2026

Shams

123

Girl I think ur right endeza new mehon yalebet ene personally yanchin birr mitebek kehone lek new beye alamnm gn it depends on the person ende ene gn ur right

Sep 11, 2026

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