heres what works for me.. first of all never entertain the thought it is a trap.. whenever this thoughts come to your mind, ignore them as much as you can and shift your focus to something else. secondly dont confront the feeling thinking you can control yourself instead run away from it..dont put yourself into temptation like being with a girl alone in a room and never show the girls any kind of interest. lastly prostration(ስግደት) is the best medicine for this so do it till you get tired.