The thing is i have a girlfriend.....and she believed in no sex before marriage because she thinks that her husband is the only person who desserves her virginity......but after she told me this i told her also there will be no expensive dates and stuffs although i can afford it......i am okay with coffee dates and long walk and stuffs as long as it's not expensive......at first she was okay with that but i noticed she wasn't happy with my decision......and i explained to her by her own logic like i am protecting my money just as you're protecting your virginity......like i don't want to waste money on someone that i am not sure getting married to.........what do you think of this......isn't it fair????