Hi everyone. Guys who are good-looking but naturally cold/don't talk much, do you feel like good looks get you in the door, but your personality turns people off ? I easily get numbers or approached by girls, but as soon as we spend a few hours/days together, I feel their energy dwindling. It feels like as soon as they get to know the real me, they dipπ€£ Case in point: even at a recent graduation, a girl I didn't even know came up to me, called me handsome, we took pics mnamin and hung out for like 2 hours. yelele she was into it initially. But towards the end, I just wasn't matching her high energy cuzand i felt her vibe dwindling. When I called her the next morning to meet up(we agreed before i left) she just said "I'm busy, can i call you later" and never did. It's like people expect every attractive guy to have crazy game mnamin and when you're just naturally quiet, they lose interest or label you awkward. For the girls when u find a guy like this and hang out,
Jul 26, 2026It just seems like they aren't interested if they don't talk much.
Jul 26, 2026