Hi am sam femal .the thing is am an introvert and very considerate for the emotion of other peopel, but the things is it always backfire on me people seems to take my consideration in to weakness. My life seems to get messy because of this special in my work place people often get envious and hateful toword me.and what makes it funny is i am quiet doesn't get in other peope business. What do you recommend .
Jun 26, 2026This something that can be changed with practice, coz i was also in same situation for years. Just be conscious of the things u want to change, the things u want to do and the things to avoid... Then write down the perfect version of u that u want to be. And read it. Let it sink in and meditate about it... After that start applying that in ur life little by little. And when u achieve even the smallest changes, give urself grace... Trust me u will change in and be the person u want to be.
Jun 26, 2026Ignoring is best
Jun 26, 2026start judging people starting hating start talking about their miserable life and have your own people that you can trust like the people you you gossip then laugh at them anyplace they go that way they starts to avoid that conflict because little by little that shit starts hardening their lives then they literally start to feel the exact feelings you felt when they backstab you and hate you that is the only sorry humanity in overall has fallen you will never welcomed with that weak kind hear
Jun 26, 2026But It makes me emotionally and even physically sick when I do this ..I am sensitive to negative and confronting thing .I hate conflict that why I keep my opinion to my self.even when I speak up thing get worse and turn in to a hug issue
Jun 26, 2026Same here they hate when they want something bad from me but i can't do this type of thing and involve in this type of situation they hate when i get attention they hate when i loved they hate all about me but i don't care anymore
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