Hey guys, got a question... Kind of! Especially for u ladies. I want u to explain to me some points based on what is below here... I have been in relationships (3), the last two ended up with me getting damped and cheated on, the second one was z worst the feeling is still there. Idk what's wrong but they both said "its not u its me" so it got me thinking maybe its me am kind of a weird guy introvert, really hate talking on the phone so we usually txt, I hate crowded places, and social interactions just exhaust me so I sometimes just shutdown for a day or two ik these things piss off the ladies but what's wrong with that can't they be understanding and supportive or minamin. Am writing this long ass question/story in z middle of z night b/c am worried. I have totally lost interest in this kind of thing b/c am scared of the pain later on. I need some word of advice.
Sep 29, 2019I would advice you to keep relationship aside and work on yourself. You don't have to claim that you are an introvert and stay stuck there. Go out to cool events, network. Maybe try volunteering for an organisation. These are skills that will help you in the future. Don't improve yourself for the chicks. Time will solve that issue. Work on your values and priorities. Those chicks wouldn't be cheating to begin with, if you didn't puss around.
Sep 30, 2019