Why do we are afraid of open communication more than sexualy transmited diseases??? Like wouldn't it be better if you ask him, "Hey you take too long to respond and it kind of bothers me and I want to know why is that?" and based on the answer and also how he answers you will know if he is your kind of person or not cus more than the answer itself sometimes how the answer is given says a lot about that person. imagine if you don't feel comfortable having a discussion now what would happen in the future when big issues starts to arise??