Hey everyone, people think I’m sick in the head, and I want to confirm that. I broke up with my ex 10 months ago, but we’ve met several times and still chat because of mutual friends. We’re in a good place, and I know she has no intention of getting back with me. Recently, I asked her about something she was struggling with, and she told me she’s having trouble paying 400K. She has saved 100K but is on a deadline. She knows I can’t help, so she didn’t even ask. Meanwhile, I’ve saved up almost exactly that amount, though I had other plans for it. My first instinct was to lend it to her with a 15-month repayment plan. But my friends think I’m crazy and are strongly against it. Istg I’m not doing this to win her back. I just want to help. Am I making a mistake?