First connect ur soul ፈጣሪህ ጋር ሌላው ቀላል ይሆናል ብዙ ሰው እንደዛ ሲል ሳክስ ሊመስል ይችላል ግን እውነት ነው ።

make a plan, stick to the plan, always deliver

I'm in the process too so take my advice with a grain of salt. but in my experience you have to start building the environment/habbits of the person you want to be. for example, lets say u want to be a more modern cleanlier more confident person. the first step would be to adjust your living space to be cleaner, neater, more functional and maintaining that condition. your workspace also should be clean and modern and inviting too. and when i say environment, i dont just mean living space tho. you also need to wear a change of clean cloth daily in a way the way a cleanier more modern person would. u need to keep a routine of keeping your hygiene as well, in addition to finding a hobby/ sport the person you would want to be would do at the same time everyday. in conclusion, by adjusting your habits, routines and environment into one followed by your ideal version; you will begin changing into that person as you embrace those habits, environments, etc into your life