I figured there would be smart people here than vent soo pls just give me ur advice. I love my man, he loves me too gn we didn't do the deed and he told me that he wants to. Im so confused pls help. I date to marry and yes i think imma marry him but I don't wanna loose my value in the future incase this doesn't work out and its also a sin. Im 21 so just tell me ur experience
15 votes
If u think u don't want to don't do it. If he is demanding it and if he puts it as a requirement in a relationship to proceed further then he is not the right guy. Asking for it is not normal but trying to persuade or trying to force u to do it without ur interest is a red flag.
Jan 19, 2025Its never been normal
Jan 19, 2025Just don't do it. Wait till marriage
Jan 19, 2025ተይ የምሬን ነው እናትሽ ካንቺ በላይ ስለ ህይወት ታውቂያለሽ ደሞ 1-ሀጢያት ነው 2-እና ከሱ ጋር ግንኙነት ካደረግሽ እሱ ላንቺ ያለው ቦታ ይቀንሳል እና ደግሞ አይበለውና ብትለያዩ ምን ሊፈጠር እንደሚችል አስቢው
Jan 19, 2025
It is normal, but never do anything for the sake of others, if you don't wanna do it, don't. Discuss with him, only if you wanna do it then do it, it is normal for him to ask this, it is also normal for you to say yes or no.
Jan 19, 2025I voted not normal just in case... However i think that you should only do it if you are sure that he truly loves you and is determined to marry you... Which is very tough for u to be sure about and we have girls being deceived bezi gize But if u are not sure it's pretty obvious kalagebash betaaaam endemitsetsetesh, so think about it bedemb, make sure he is gonna marry you Ask questions like how he is planning to live with you after u are married. Liagebash asbo kehone esun tyake kelel argo new mimelslesh, because and wend setn liageba siaseb hulunm set up new miasbew! Kelel argo kalmeleselsh gn tertri Ena betam ke fkru belay be sexu obsessed kehonem tertri... Ena be ande demo eshi atbeyiw... Kanchiga future kalasebe tolo new tesfa mikortew.
Jan 19, 2025Future maseb alebsh sis..mogn atuyi kikrbsh lijit
Jan 19, 2025Kegabecha befit sex yemiteyek wend emegnign player nw
Jan 19, 2025the fact that it is a sin should stop you. don't make this mistake. it will be one of the things that you regret doing the most.
Jan 24, 2025I left my ex cause of this specific reason!!!
Jan 20, 2025Cuz she said no?
Jan 20, 2025Don't do it gurl, believe me
Jan 19, 2025Ged yelshim ehte endatargiw mnm yhun mn
Jan 19, 20252.እነዚህ ጥያቀዎች አስቢባቸው ብታረግዥ ምንድነው ሚፈጠረው? አቅም አላችሁ ለማሳደግ ወይስ ልታስወርጂው ነው? ስታስወርጂ በሚመጣ complication ነገ ልጅ መውለድ ባትችይ ጸጸቱን ትችይዋለሽ? ሚያገባሽ ይመስልሻል? ጥሎሽ ብሄድ ላንቺ ችግር የለውም? Post pill ብዙ በመጠቀም መሃን እንደሚሆን ታውቂያለሽ? Birthcontrol pill አንዱ side effect ክብድት መጨመር እንደሆነ ታውቂያለሽ? ለዛ ሚያዋጣሽን ምረጪ. አብዛኛው ወንድ ለትዳር ሚመርጣት ሴት ድንግል የሆነች እንደሆነ ታውቂያለሽ?
Jan 20, 2025Don't do it...tell him to wait till marriage ...the way he reacts can prove if he loves you or not....
Jan 19, 2025Let him hit
Jan 19, 2025