I'm not opposing the notion of relationships. They're natural, after all. My question is:
First, imagine if Google or Wikipedia had barely contained other issues other than those related to dating. Obviously, you'd be annoyed. The same is true with this group. I mean take for example, the website 'Quora', where you can discuss any issue you name, not necessarily on the topic of dating. But here, you get the most replies if you raise those childish 'love' (whatever that means) questions; otherwise, no or hardly any attention drawn. So the name 'Ask Dating' instead of 'Ask Anything' would have perfectly matched the contents of this group.
Second, it is true that we have these inherent sexual feelings. They're interwoven with our survival instincts; they're more hormonal than conscious. But what sets us apart from the other animals is that we're intelligent enough be in control of them. On the other hand, being controlled by them, at every instant they arise, means we have given in to our animal instincts.
Sep 29, 2019