⚠️Disclaimer: The following might be traumatizing and raw. Don't read it if u r not ready.
Ikr you have to work both inside and outside home. You'll no rest and still u will critisized for everything. U stay at home taking care of ur kids while he's out there chilling with his friends. When u complain about it and ask him to come home early. You will be called "ጨቅጫቃ ሚስት". You may not have time to take care of yourself. And u will be critisized for it. "She's not hot anymore she has let her self go." If u choose to be a stay at home to get some rest. You'll have to ask him for money. And he'll complain about it. And you get called lazy and sra fet for staying home. And u will be away from everyone. You won't have time to hang out with ur friends. You'll be hated and critisized by his family. He gets to have a maid, a woman that he could sleep with all the time. He gets to eat nice food wear washed clothes. He'll look as good as ever feeding on ur energy. And he might leave u for not being hot anymore after he used up ur time, energy...everything. He might cheat on u. Plus after all that exhaustion u will have to sleep with him🤧 Whether u like it or not and u will pretend like u r having a good time.
And then u will get pregnant😭 You'll throw up in the morning, struggle to be comfortable while sleeping, every part of ur body will swell, U will feel dizzy and tired, Ur hip might be broken, U will cry all the time due to hormones, u will pee like 100× a day, u will get diarrhea, u will get constipation, ur skin will feel itchy, u will get heartburn, u will get acnes, ur skin color might get darker, ur clothes won't fit u anymore...
And giving birth is another whole nightmare😭
You will feel pain that's 10× period pain( Imagine how hard it is), Doctors will put their hands inside ur uterus to check how much u hv dilated. They will insert their hands in ur uterus after u hv given birth to take out the placenta and clean everything else left inside😭 and will push a whole baby out of ur🐱. And it'll be torn and u will get stitched up😭 And u will bleed for days and u might not move around as much as u want. Ur skin will be stretched, u will gain weight, ur boobs will get saggy, ur feet might not turn back to normal( it'll be swollen) this will be repeated again and again, for every kid that u will give birth to🤧and this might be a good reason for ur husband to leave😕
And not to mention that you'll raise ur husband as well. Most of them suck at managing money. They waste it. You will argue over that and get the "ጨቅጫቃ ሚስት" title. Most don't even pick up after themselves. Can't even wash a single sock. You do all that shit for them. They consider the bare minimum as a big favor. They consider eating the food that u made them without u serving for them as helping out😂
So yeah marriage sucks. It's hella scary. I don't blame women that marry men for their money. Money decreases half of these burdens.
Jan 04, 2025Well, this was raw😮💨
Yekbdal, yeah, this here is the reason we MUST choose a husband carefully. A husband who can understand, respect, and take care of us too. And for guys, help out your lady don't be another child that she will be raising and picking up after. Zembelachu atekmetu. megb seru, serve yourself then ansetachu etebut beka yebet sera seru hule ke set atebeku. Half of the burden kensulate
Jan 04, 2025
