I have a question for the girl. assume that your in a very loving relationship with your man and he comes up with the idea of being intimate with you and uk what i mean by intimate( could be sex or other wild stuff). What kind of influence will that have on you? will you lose interest in him? and even if he doesn't bring it up, is it just a matter of time that you'll lose interest in the long run or you just continue normally? I'm genuinely curious
Dec 29, 2024Me personally no sex before marriage..🙅♀ selezih intimate neger mefelegu lene kalew fiker yetenesa endehone yegebagnal gen eskenegaba deres enditebek enegrewalew..gen yehe too much obsessed mihon kehone gen sexual energyw megerat selalebet antelteye church wesje entseleyebetalen...bezam alemeles kale Dena hun 👋 wend lij sexual drive'un mekotater kalchale that will be his great mewdekiya wetmed.
Dec 29, 2024Well I wouldn't lose interest immediately because we are mature and we need to communicate. He deserves to know how I feel and I deserve to know how he feels too because that's how relationships work right...then I confront him, I tell him I'm not ready at this point if he tries to use those don't you trust me and more allegations on me or if he tries to force me that's when I lose interest but I can't lose interest because a man asked me to be intimate with him. That's just so immature
Dec 29, 2024you're wise.
Dec 29, 2024I would lose interest in him if he ask me to do intimate things before marriage that is my feeling about him
Dec 29, 2024as someone who was in this situation a little back, yes we lose interest! the thing is i understood where he was coming from, you are attracted to someone you like/love. would be a lie if i said i wasnt sexually driven too, but as human beings we should be able to control it and abstain till marriage. the moment i gave in to his request the entire relationship became lustful. that led to the break up and he moved on to another which made me feel nothing but used. and thats my biggest regret in life. so yes dont bring it up, Patience is bitter but the fruit is sweet. "Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral."
Dec 29, 2024